IT seems to me that part of the magic in a marriage is not knowing necessarily where the pieces lie. Scott Yenor calls the fulfillment that a marriage has the potential to deliver as a mystery. Part of the marriage landscape, is a no man’s land. Marriage is a sociality that encompasses the symbolic and the physical. Symbols ending in traditions, and the treasures and trinkets of heirlooms are all present; Guilds and shields, all new and united under one roof, which are unique to that particular context. The idea of need is part of the mix. Concepts like vulnerability which we hear a lot of today,” you have to be available”, “accept the vulnerability” are really highlights on the word need. Important romantics writer Jean Jacques Rousseau said, love doesn’t exist without the needing something.
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